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How to deal with it?<\/p>\n<p>Here is a great article, with pictures, that analyses different scenarios, and guides one how to tackle criticism.\u00a0 Read the bullet points in the main article for a better understanding.<\/p>\n<p>One interesting\u00a0thing about criticism is, although\u00a0it stings in most cases, in most cases it helps too if you want to get truly good at something. Not only will this tips help you improve your interactions with other people, but it will also help you improve yourself and feel better when you have problems.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Stay calm<\/li>\n<li>Give yourself time to cool off<\/li>\n<li>Separate the criticism<\/li>\n<li>Think about the skills you have that will help<\/li>\n<li>Be proud of yourself<\/li>\n<li>Listen to what they have to say<\/li>\n<li>Respond when you&#8217;re ready<\/li>\n<li>Apologize for your mistakes, if needed<\/li>\n<li>Acknowledge where they&#8217;re right<\/li>\n<li>Talk about how you plan to change<\/li>\n<li>Ask for their advice<\/li>\n<li>Communicate the need for patience<\/li>\n<li>See this as an opportunity<\/li>\n<li>Distinguish useful from useless advice<\/li>\n<li>Think about and write down some takeaways<\/li>\n<li>Make a plan<\/li>\n<li>Never give up on trying to be better<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Read full article <a class=\"cs_link\" href=\"http:\/\/www.wikihow.com\/Accept-Criticism\" target=\"_blank\">How to Accept Criticism (with Pictures) &#8211; wikiHow<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Have more ideas? 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